art of seduction

well these two months seems like i'm very tired being a good, shy girl and juz sit and see my boys taken from other gurls!! two my ex-boy is married now and the recent one (juz describe him as Z) juz treat me as his special friend or 'teman tapi mesra' bcoz i knew he still looking other woman although i'm dating with him almost everyday!huhu..

so the good girl is going bad now,haha.. not so bad la, juz being a bit naughty.. i dont know which part that i'm still lacking. mybe i'm not pretty, i know i'm overweight (but wait until next two month, i'm sure i'll lose atleast another 10kgs,haha). i'm not too short, juz need 6inch more to be a model :p 

erm then i do some post mortem (dasat tuh) with one of my friend and suprisingly found out that mybe i'm lack the skill of seducing? OMG is it true?haha it sound funny right? but honestly i admit mybe it is true.. i dont know what actually the man thinks? what do they want? so i googling and found this article. i summarize it for u ok..

first:

do some makeover

if u not happy with urself, u'll have no/little confidence. makeover process mybe took a long period. i start makeover myself gradually since 2007. if u compare my previous picture with recent one, u'll see the differences. 5 years ago, i'm a fat girl, with oily face and acne, 'gigi berterabur' (i dont know wht it called in English), dark girl and etc.

so i try to remove all the acnes by using traditional maskers (guava leaves with rice flour) and in a week, all the acnes gone!! i use goat's milk scrub for my face and body almost a year until some of my friend said 'eh Nora u are very fair now!'haha...

for my teeth, i spend about RM2500 to make crown and bridge (dont ask me what the hell is that, ask ur dentist) and in juz 3 weeks, i become a new person. my confidence level is arise and i keep smiling and showing my teeth everytime someone taking my picture..:p

so the biggest problem i had now is only my weight, i still need to reduce atleast another 10kgs. 

i juz lose 10kgs in 10 weeks starting this february(that bcoz i'm depress my ex left me to marry his fiance) and now when i'm happy, i start gaining 2kgs again,haha.. so plz someone left me again so i can lose another 10kgs, kui2..

next:

read his body language

how to know he is interested? read his body language bcoz his body signals are better indicators of how he feels about you than anything he may actually say verbally. Look for his eyes contact and trust your instincts. Look for his small gestures and tone of voice and you may find out what he feels towards you. but be careful bcoz some men are good playing with his gestures and face. he made u feel that u re the one for him but actually not bcoz he still play around with other girls - i called them 'sweet talker' or 'player'. this type of man dont like to marry or engaged or anything that will tie him. so if this 'player' asked u to marry him, better hire a private investigator,haha.. 

next:

flirt,flirt and flirt..

the important part!!!

the meaning is keep him interested and aroused (oops!!)

dont ask me how to get him aroused, coz i dont know either but remember that men are highly dependent on your signals to reassure them that they are 'onto something' good. And ladies, playing hard-to-get isn't particularly attractive to men unless you're sending out enough signals to assure him that you are 'gettable' and that the chase will be worth it in the end. Don't be too obvious in showing your interest in a guy. Ignore every now and then. But don't be so cold that the guy loses interest in you. Giving him space would be a good option for both of you. ermm.. i learned the theory, but how to do that?haha... 

next:

Smell Good
Make sure you smell good. Apply a nice perfume that is not too strong.  do not spray the perfume directly on yourself but spray it in front of you and immediately walk through the mist. This is to makes that the perfume is not concentrated on some places and you smell good overall.

(ok i want to but nice perfume now,haha)

ok enough for today, if i found some tips again i'll post it here and share with u..now i'm trying to apply this theory and i'll tell u the results later, hahaha..